Loving Well

“After you are gone, people may forget most of what you have said & done. But they will remember that you loved them.” -Steve Goodier

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February is often known as the month of “love”. I think it is really beautiful to celebrate love, both during this month as well as year round. It really does make the world go round, if it were not for LOVE, life would be bitterly devoid of color & vibrancy & emotion & basically all the things that make living worthwhile. I thought I’d share some ideas on how to love others well today, as we look beyond ourselves into the world around us. We ALL could use a little more love (& kindness & hope & joy) in our lives.

“Love is donating a chunk of your life to patch up holes in the life of another.” -Richelle E. Goodrich

  1. Smile at the people you pass by in the car, in the grocery store, in your neighborhood, in your workplace, with your own kiddos. MAKE EYE CONTACT & SMILE. Make it evident that you are intentionally choosing to acknowledge others & that they are worthy of that smile.
  2. Have a day of saying YES. I know that this might sound odd, but being a mama bear of a 3 year old & a 1 year old, saying YES is not nearly as frequent in my vocabulary as “no” is, sadly. There are definitely days where I feel as if “no” has been the only thing I have communicated with my girls, which is not the way I want to do this parenting thing. There is a time & place, yes, but saying yes is so much better. Just take one day & say YES to everything (within reason & safety, obviously), but push yourself to have a bit of freedom & fun for your littles & for yourself. Giving yourself a day of YES is also a good idea if you tend to deprive yourself (again, within reason) but allowing yourself to take a nap, or read an extra chapter of your favorite book, or eat some chocolate, or go on that hike you’ve been putting off, pulling out your art supplies while the dishes wait in the sink, or whatever, just allow yourself some freedom. Love yourself.
  3. Donate your time. VOLUNTEER at your local homeless shelter, food closet, high school fundraiser committee, wildlife organization, church nursery, etc. Babysit for free for a young family so the parents can go out on a date, sign up to drive for an elderly group home, go visit folks in group homes, pick up trash with a local community aid organization, etc. Do something. The options are endless.
  4. Bring your neighbor or someone who is ill a bouquet of flowers or some home baked bread. Get to know them & share your kindness with them.
  5. Read extra books to your little ones. Put your phone down, get down on the carpet & read until they are satisfied. Then act out the stories together. It will be a kick in the pants & that laughter will be SO worth it.
  6. Go support local artists. Go to their shows, invite your friends, have a great time, invest in your community & local talent.
  7. Skip a coffee a week & instead sponsor a child through a program like World Vision or Compassion International. Not only will it provide medical care, education & support for a child somewhere in the world who needs it, it will benefit yourself as you grow in your global outreach & understanding. It will be sweeter than that cup of coffee, for sure.
  8. Super simple, but essential for life: TELL THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU LOVE THEM. Tell them verbally & SHOW IT. Be intentional, be honest. Be true.

“You can never be poor by giving & showing love to others.” -Kemi Sogunle

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There have been times in my life where other people, whether stranger or friend, have shown kindness & loved me well. When I was doing my cancer treatment at Stanford, there were different people who came through the cancer ward & played the harp, guitar, taught painting classes, did group crafts, etc. We had a family make a home cooked Thanksgiving dinner & spend their Thanksgiving in the hospital with us, eating their turkey. I received countless hats, blankets, cards & well wishes. It was a season where I was loved well, by all of the people around me, stranger or friend. That is just one example from my own story where LOVING WELL was evident & SO needed. Even just recently, we have moved into our new home & it has been a season of chaos, exhaustion & stress but that has been alleviated a bit be some of the most beautiful souls we have had the privilege of knowing. They have come to our aid in the form of cookies, art, salt & pepper shakers, wine, cards of congrats, & groceries on our shelves in the pantry that I am still trying to figure out. You all know who you are, so THANK YOU. You, have loved our family well & we are grateful.

“Our joy in life is inexorably determined by the degree to which we love.” -Seth Adam Smith

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A few weeks ago in our preschool routine, Eliana learned the “golden rule”. It is always a good reminder, so I thought I’d share it here as well. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” With that being said, it’s never a great idea (in my opinion) to ever do anything with the sole purpose of than receiving like treatment. If your heart is not in a giving place, simply to BE giving, with no strings attached, it has the potential to cause bitterness within yourself which is just not great. BUT- treating others with kindness, LOVING WELL, with open arms & a heart of joy is such a great foundational way to exist. It makes life more than existing, it moves it into THRIVING. I want to thrive, I don’t want to just exist. I want my life, my love, my response to the people around me to be of GOODNESS, to be noble, to be pure, to be praiseworthy. I want people to feel valued, seen, heard. I want to LOVE PEOPLE WELL.

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Will you join me? Beyond just this season of the year where love is celebrated with chocolate, flowers & cards? Will you choose to make your life a celebration of LOVE everyday, being intentional to love the people around you? Will you not just choose love, but will you choose to LOVE WELL? To give of yourself & say YES? I hope you will. This is a rally cry for myself as well as others, so know that I am preaching to myself. I am simply choosing to share my heart’s desire to GO BEYOND myself & LOVE better. Let’s do it friends. I know we can.

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” -Lao Tzu

 

Cheers,

Katie.

River of Life

“Your success & happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, & your joy & you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.” -Helen Keller

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Here we are at the beginning of February & my heart is light. DESPITE the very reality of being exhausted because of x, y & z. Those include being pregnant, moving into our new home (which is chaotic & overwhelming), doing preschool each day with my littles, keeping a house running, cooking, cleaning, trying to remember to eat/shower/sleep. Oh & also subbing 1-2 days a week, doctor’s appointments & all the other “things”. Like buying doorknob covers & child safety gates & conquering Walmart with both my children literally covered up with heaps of toilet paper rolls & towel bars. It has been INSANE. But, all I know is this:

I’VE GOT A RIVER OF LIFE FLOWING OUT OF ME. SPRING UP OH WELL!

There is nothing sweeter than surrender, true surrender. Surrendering to the fact that being in control is not the best answer & letting go, letting yourself breathe & laugh & play really is the better option. We get to choose each day what our attitude is going to be, how FREE we are going to live. Somehow, in this crazy crazy season, I have been able to surrender & it has been life changing, life-breathing! Don’t get me wrong, I have had several REALLY hard days complete with tears, necessary hot cocoa consumption & Andy Griffith in order to recover. I’ve been a mess. BUT overall, somehow, (thank you Holy Spirit) I have been able to not only survive this season, but I have had WAY more joy & peace in the daily process of life than I should be able to manage. Let me tell you, I can FEEL that river of life within. That fountain of unrestrained hope & laughter. Those waves of refreshing within my soul that wash over me, over & over again. I could not do this without it. Without Jesus. Straight up.

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Two nights ago, Noah & I stayed at our new house for the second time. It was weird, but way less weird than the first time. It is slowly starting to feel like ours. I was awakened in the middle of the night by the pounding rain, which is one of my favorite things. Not waking up in the middle of the night to it, but getting to hear that beautiful sound while resting from the world, that is wonderful. I laid awake after that because the wee one in my womb decided to have a little dance routine for quite awhile, blissfully unaware that it was the middle of the night. It was such a wonderful feeling. After a while, the tiny bebe decided it was time to go back to sleep & Β in turn allow me the same opportunity, but it was well worth a bit of lost sleep. The miracle of life within, this time of a secret that only little one & myself are privy to, is just bliss. There is nothing like it. The moments like that, are what keep me full of joy no matter what my daily chaos may look like. I am so so blessed.

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“When you rise in the morning, give thanks for the light, for your life, for your strength. Give thanks for your food & for the joy of living. If you see no reason to give thanks, the fault lies in yourself.” -Tecumseh

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“We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.” -Buddha

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If you are in a season of chaos, or maybe just in a bit of a funk, remember the river of life within! Remember that letting go is a better option, allowing yourself to float along the top of waves & just roll with them, to wherever they are headed. It has worked out better for me. Those days I sink are not the best. I guess Dory said it best with her famous, “Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming!” That & her undaunted positive outlook. If you are in a place today where you could use a bit more joy, do a little dance in the kitchen with your kiddos. I’m not kidding! Shake it up & get loose. ENJOY YOURSELF. ENJOY TODAY.

Today is your day, friend.

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“We need more kindness, more compassion, more joy, more laughter. I definitely want to contribute to that.” -Ellen DeGeneres

 

Cheers,

Katie.

A New Year

“You don’t climb mountains without a team, you don’t climb mountains without being fit, you don’t climb mountains without being prepared & you don’t climb mountains without balancing the risks & rewards. And you never climb a mountain on accident – it has to be intentional.” -Mark Udall

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Today I want to share what my prayers & goals are for this new year of 2017. I think one of the best ways to do that, however, is to REFLECT a bit on this past year of 2016 & look at how my goals & prayers were accomplished & answered. About a year ago I sat down & did the same thing with thankfuls for the previous year & wrote out new ideas for the new season. I highly recommend it! I have shared the importance (in my head) of this practice with various students on days that I have subbed. I think most of them just nod along, sadly, but I have had a handful approach me later & share that they decided to put what I shared into practice & that they are glad they did. I know that this annual activity has been beneficial for me in several different ways, but mostly, it has been GOOD for my soul.

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There is something really REALLY beautiful about reflection & seeing all the wonderful things that life has shared with me. In this last year of 2016, I have to honestly say it wasn’t one of the “best” years of my life. But it also wasn’t bad. It was just crazy, with lots of highs & lows, lots of exhaustion & long days. But it also held some truly beautiful things that have impacted my heart & GROWN me as well. My girls, my sweet girls, were definitely a gift for me this last year. Don’t get me wrong, they definitely add to my exhaustion & help grow patience & grace in me on a regular basis, but they were a SERIOUS highlight for me. My time, my life, this past year was prioritized by being their mama. It was grand. I will share more things below, but first I wanted to revisit my goals & prayer list for last year.

2016 Goals & Prayers

-Joy & peace for Noah, Eliana, Cora & I.

-Patience & grace in my parenting.

-Excellence in what I put my hands to.

-Prioritizing my health- being whole with food & exercise.

-Read through entire Bible this year.

-Leave the country, have a kid-free vacation with Noah.

-Have our house ready to sell, be open to move.

-Get pregnant. Stay stress free & well rested.

-Blog regularly, keep sharing the good news of Jesus.

-Make art, woodworking, photography.

-Pre-school with Eliana.

 

My word for the year of 2016:

Kindness.

My verse for the year of 2016:

“Let the words of my mouth & the meditations of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my strength & my Redeemer.” -Psalms 19:14

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Overall, looking back over what last year held & all the craziness that it held, I am pleased to say that I feel that my goals were met! (More or less. πŸ˜‰ ) I did have peace & joy, my patience & grace in my parenting grew, with plenty of failure as well. But I do feel that I have grown & hope to continue learning how to be more patient & full of grace with my kiddos this year & every year after this. I ate well, did yoga, the Insanity program & ran (way further & faster than I have ever done in the past!) & had dance parties & tickle fights with the girls. A biggy goal for me was to read through the entire Bible in the year & I am proud that I stuck to my goal all year long & even finished a few days early! I’m also going to have this as a goal for this year. We spend 3 weeks in Europe with my parents, Noah & I got an absolutely perfect 2 night getaway in the Bay area kid free, we got our house ready to sell & SOLD IT within a month of listing it, BOUGHT a huge fixer-upper, & spent the last 6 months of the year remodeling it (& are ALMOST DONE! Praise. The. Lord.). We got pregnant, WOO-HOO!, I stayed Β more or less stress free & well rested, which was miraculous & such a gift because of living with my parents. Thank you Mom! I blogged at least once a month & did art, as well as pre-school with Eliana. It is really RAD to look back over that list & see that so much of it came to pass. I couldn’t have done it without my amazing tribe or incredible Jesus. I am so so GRATEFUL.

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Here we are now in January of 2017. 2017! I can’t believe that. I distinctly remember 1999 & the weirdness of going into 2000. I remember thinking ahead & not being able to wrap my head around what the year 2005, 2013, 2017, etc looked like, sounded like, would be like! Now here we are. Crazy. So, for this new year, I am going to share my goals & prayers below.

2017 Goals & Prayers

-Do life with intention. Be intentional. Use my time wisely.

-Read through the whole Bible.

-Speak encouragement & life daily over my tribe.

-Do yoga weekly, eat more raw foods.

-Smile more.

-Consistent pre-school with Eliana & Cora.

-Choose rest, stay stress-free.

-Have a healthy pregnancy, delivery & baby!

-Move into our new home & make it a haven.

-Spend more time playing with my kiddos.

-Make date nights a habit with Noah.

-Go on a babymoon.

-Journal.

-Learn to knit.

 

My word for the year of 2017:

Intentionality.

(One of) My verse for the year of 2017:

“Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthyβ€”meditate on these things.” -Philippians 4:8

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I want to spend 2017 being intentional, with the Lord, with myself, my husband, my littles. I don’t want the days to go by wasted on things that don’t matter. I want to spend my time focused on what brings LIFE & breaths GOODNESS. I want to invest my life doing things that matter. I feel like that is why after waiting & waiting to solidify what my word for the year was, this one, intentionality, just covers it. I have great expectations for what this year holds, some obvious, some totally unknown. But I want it to be a GREAT year, whatever happens. The two major things that I am looking forward to the Β most are moving into our new home & having baby number 3! Besides that, the year is mostly a blank canvas that I am excited to see it filled up with memories.

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I hope you are looking ahead with hope for this new year. I hope that you have had some time to sit down & focus & think about what matters to you & why. If you haven’t had the chance to do that, I strongly encourage you to do it. Find a word or phrase for the year! Find a poem or a song or a quote that makes you COME ALIVE & make it your mantra for the year. This year is a gift. Be encouraged.

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“Gratitude is where every positive attitude starts.” -Michael Hyatt

 

Cheers,

Katie.

 

2016 Recap

“In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” -Abraham Lincoln

I want to share our Christmas letter with you. It has been 7 years of writing these letters & I love how it is a concise (in my opinion πŸ˜‰ ) way of recapping what the year has held for our little family. These past weeks have been a whirlwind of holiday-ness, lots of family, intentional time spent together playing, eating, creating, enjoying time with one another. It really was a sweet, perfect way to end the year of 2016!

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Merry Christmas & Happy New Year dear ones!

The season has come again in which we share with one another the good things that this last year of 2016 has held for us, where we focus on the GLORY of BEING ALIVE in a world where each & every day there are blessings to be seen & experienced. It has been quite a year for our little Jenks Tribe! We are overwhelmed with GRATITUDE for the grace that the King of Kings has shared with us in this last year & we hope that yours has been one of goodness & that you are looking forward to 2017 with joy & anticipation along with us!

The beginning of the year & the spring were definitely the most β€œnormal” for us, as we enjoyed our little abode, prepared & researched for our summer trip to Europe, watched the girls grow & spent time with one another. In February, we celebrated Katie being declared FOUR years cancer free! It is always such a gift to hear that declaration & then to shout it from the rooftops. We went on hikes on warm days, puddle-jumped on the rainy ones & spent the cold days inside reading piles of books by the fire & dancing to music on the record player. Our travels including flying out to Texas to visit family, where we had a grand old time going to the zoo, lots of parks & eating delicious chocolate chip cookies. We also took a few trips to southern California to visit family & friends as well as spent time at magical Disneyland.

Eliana turned THREE in March & we celebrated her by spending the day blowing bubbles, eating chocolate cake & lots of singing. Also in March, we found a true fixer-upper & decided that it was worth changing what our projected year looked like because of its future value & fit for our family & after a crazy few weeks of getting things in order, we bought the house, got our house ready to put on the market & by the first weekend of May our little abode was listed! Within days we had multiple offers & by the time we left for our trip to Europe a month later, we had sold our first home! It was INCREDIBLE seeing how it all worked out & the peace we were able to leave for Europe with. Also at the end of May, Cora turned ONE! We celebrated her birthday with Riah Joy her cousin, being they are only 12 days apart. We had good friends & family come eat cake & celebrate our little May bΓ©bΓ©s with their wildflower crowns & beautiful faces. It was a perfect party.

In June we spent 3 weeks traveling with Katie’s parents across Switzerland, northern Italy, Austria & England. It was most definitely, one of the BEST parts of this year. This trip was absolutely perfect. We stayed at great places, didn’t miss a single train, ate gelato (or β€œbelato” according to Eliana) at Lake Como, stood at the base of a waterfall in Lauterbrunnen, rode on a gondola in Venice, saw the Crown Jewels in the pouring rain, sang folk songs with a few Austrian grandmas in the forests outside of Vienna, ate schnitzel in Salzburg & had simply a marvelous summer tour. It was incredible & we wouldn’t change a thing about it. In June we also celebrated our 7 year wedding anniversary while abroad which seems to be the way it happens for us! The rest of the summer brought us fully into our season of remodeling our new home, with trips to Pinecrest, Oregon, Bodie & southern California in between.

The fall continued to be very BUSY & BEAUTIFUL for us with Noah in his 4th year of teaching 7th grade English as well as working on our new house each day alongside Katie’s dad. Katie is subbing about once a week but is primarily home with the girls & enjoying it greatly. She is continuing to blog about our family adventures at thejenkstribe.com & doing pre-school with Eliana, who is growing up way too fast. Cora is growing up way too fast as well & is keeping us on our toes with her enthusiasm & joy. Both girls are TRUE GIFTS & their blossoming sisterhood brings our hearts such pleasure. The fall has brought us daily walks, nature exploration, tea parties, princess dresses, dancing & singing, parks, library visits, baking & lots of outdoor activities. Becoming parents (next to being married & loving Jesus) is the best thing that we could have ever chosen. It is rewarding beyond measure. We are so grateful.

Each & every day we have a simple choice to CHOOSE a life for ourselves full of happiness. We try to practice that especially in years like this that has had seasons of chaos & busyness. It is valuable, keeps us healthy, makes us stronger & ultimately builds our foundation of peace. We know that the hope we carry, not just in the holiday season but all year long, is so much SWEETER when we choose to experience it each day. This year has most definitely been one of establishing our foundation. We have chosen joy, chosen kindness & chosen to enjoy our lives day in & day out. We will REJOICE & be glad!

May this season of coziness, of family & community & friends, of hot cocoa & Nat King Cole, bring your spirit more than just good feelings. May it establish within you a DEEP sense of happiness that will last all the year through. We wish for you a truly MERRY CHRISTMAS & A HAPPY NEW YEAR today & for all of 2017! From our little tribe to yours, we are thankful for you being a part of our lives & hope your heart & home will be filled to overflowing with blessings in this season. Peace to you!

With love & cheer,

Noah, Katie, Eliana & Cora Jenks.

P.S. Baby Jenks #3 coming in June 2017!

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There you have it! I will share more soon about what my goals & prayers are for the year 2017 & what my heart is singing about as well as how my goals for last year panned out. Peace & Joy to you friends! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

 

Cheers,

Katie.

Northern Italy & its gelato

“You may have the universe if I may have Italy.” -Giuseppe Verdi

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Italy! Oh my goodness me. It is one of my favorite countries on earth, no doubt. Every time I have visited I can’t wait to go back & explore more. It is so varied, so full of differences, so exciting. I bet you could spend a lifetime adventuring through it & still be amazed at how RAD it is! Not to mention that they have THE best gelato, or “belato”, according to my 3 year old.

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We spend a lovely week in northern Italy, traversing it by train. We headed toward the lakes area after leaving Switzerland, starting off with an afternoon in Domodossola, where we sat at the train station eating yogurt & fruit. We jumped on the next available train after our arrival there, which happened to be a local commuter train. That simply means that it stops at EVERY stop along the way, turning a 45 minute ride into a 2+ hour one. Which, turned out to be a gift because it meant that both girls crashed out on the bench seats & got a decent nap (HALLELUJAH!) as we rolled through the beautiful countryside. We arrived in Milan & ate some pizza, had our first cappuccinos of the trip & encountered numerous Romanian gypsies. We jumped onto a train again which took us up to the middle lake region of Lake Como, while both girls slept on us in a much more crowded train.

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Once there, we disembarked & made our way down to a little cafe restaurant on the water where we had a local favorite dish of pesto gnocchi. It. was. good. From there, we jumped on a ferry out of Varenna & across the way to our little hamlet of Bellagio. We were greeted by our great AirBnB hostess, who whisked us away at lightning speed winding our way up to our house for the next few days. It was a great location where we sat in the backyard which overlooked the lake, drinking good italian wine & eating more pasta, of course. It was a FABULOUS few days of exploring the middle lake region, wandering through the cobblestone streets, watching the swans, eating gelato while admiring the locally handcrafted olive wood pieces. We explored beautiful gardens, found countless lizards & even got to experience a very boisterous thunderstorm. I loved our time there, especially taking ferry rides across the water from port to port, gently rolling across the waves gazing out at the pastel buildings & ancient stone church towers. It was a peaceful place, full of incredible views, wonderful food & artful culture.

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“In Italy, they add work and life onto food and wine.” -Robin Leach

One of my highlights from our time there was when we got caught in a downpour & sat at an outdoor cafe across the square from a 500 year old church, while we waited it out. We bundled up & sipped on our cappuccinos as slowly as possible, watching kids kick a soccer ball around while their parents had their afternoon cigarette & espresso. When the rain decided to finally peter out a bit, we grabbed our umbrellas & found another winding way down to the port where we boarded our ferry back. It was a simple, satisfying moment in time with my family.

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We left Bellagio at 5am, where we walked along the shoreline waiting for the ferry. It was calm, brisk & MAGICAL. On the ferry we met an interesting couple from Australia, who were in their 7th week of traveling all around Europe. We spent the next hour or so at the train stop & on the train speaking with them about their adventures & enjoyed our encounter with them. They travel 7 weeks every single year together, hiking & journeying through different parts of the world. I admire that. I think the people in this world would be much happier if they did more of that, I sure hope as our years unfold we can continue to prioritize adventuring throughout this amazing planet.

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After arriving in Milan again, we quickly changed trains & headed east across Italy. We stopped for the afternoon in the beautiful city of Verona, where we checked in our luggage & headed out to explore. It was a great decision! I LOVED the city. We sat & ate in a large piazza full of people & music & fountains & ancient buildings. We toured the original amphitheatre that was a test design for the much larger colosseum in Rome, kissed under Romeo & Juliet’s fabled balcony, ate gelato & wandered across a moat & drawbridge & through a castle to a bridge that was rebuilt by hand after it was bombed & destroyed in WWII.

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From Verona, we got back on a train after refueling with more espresso & made our way east again to Marcon, right outside of Venice. We were picked up by yet another incredible AirBnB host who took us to her renovated 200 year old farmhouse for our stay. It was by far, the most INCREDIBLE AirBnB we have stayed in thus far. Our hostess, is a designer & interior decorator & her husband is an architect. With the two of them working their giftings together, this old farmhouse is a fully functioning, beautiful oasis of tranquility. I wanted to move in, make it a bit more toddler friendly & transport it to California. That evening she graciously drove us to the closest market where we purchased the ingredients to make a fabulous italian dinner. She also gifted us a bottle of local wine & spend nearly an hour showing us all of the local spots to visit while in Venice, where we would be exploring the very next day. She was the best hostess!

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“Italy will never be a normal country. Because Italy is Italy. If we were a normal country, we wouldn’t have Rome. We wouldn’t have Florence. We wouldn’t have the marvel that is Venice.” -Matteo Renzi

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The next day we dove right into Venice. This city has been on my bucket list for as long as I can remember, as well as on Noah’s, so this was a dream come true for us. We took the train over the marshy water as we entered another world it seemed. This feeling was deepened as we stepped out of the train station right onto the Grand Canal walkway where we were instantly overwhelmed by how COOL this new city was! It was totally surreal, seeing all of those buildings, hundreds & hundreds of years old, build literally on the water. Thinking about now, I am still blown away by how crazy those Venetians were & still are! The city of Venice is one of a kind. I am so so grateful that we made sure to experience it! We ate at a local walk in cafe where we had mozzarella & fish sandwiches for euro & drank spritz, which is also a local drink. We wandered through the winding alleyways, seeing on one street high end shops & on the very next street over one cathedral after another, smashed in between apartments & locals enjoying their afternoon espressos. We took a local gondola across the canal for half a euro each & enjoyed the rocking motion as we went over to the fish market. At the fish market we saw just about everything I could imagine! A woman even put a lively little snail into my hand so Eliana could have a close up experience. Β We walked over bridge after bridge after bridge, popped in churches, bought some watercolors from local artists, ate gelato, took LOTS of pictures & just enjoyed MEANDERING. It was a great experience, including our taxi ride back up the Grand Canal to the train station. That night we went to a tasty (& very fancy!) pizzeria & finished our time in Italy the right way.

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The next day we hopped back on the train & headed back towards Verona, where we switched trains & headed north to Austria through the Dolomites (where we will most definitely going back to hike around!). We saw sprawling castles way up on the hillsides, beautiful mountains & rivers. That was also the day that the Austro-Italian border had decided to instigate border control checks due to the volume of Syrian refugees traveling across. It was interesting to watch as they stopped the train & checked passports. Although all that we encountered were lots of smiles from the guards as Cora walked (assisted) up & down the aisles over & over again. I’m pretty sure she made a few peoples days each time we took a train. It’s hard to resist a cute baby waving at you. With that, we made our way into Austria, which I will share about the next time I write.

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Overall, Northern Italy was a highlight for me, I truly enjoyed each one of the cities we visited. They were all so different & each had so much BEAUTY to offer. Β I loved that in practically each place we were, little old men & women would stop us & squish the girl’s cheeks & call them “ciao bella”, & they really meant it. I love that Eliana learned how to say “ciao” so well & that it is now a household word for us. Just like I shared last time with Switzerland, if you haven’t been to Italy, you should. JUST DO IT. Make it happen. Especially if you love good food, interesting culture, beautiful variegated scenery & history. I honestly can’t wait to go back again. So until next time, ciao.

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“Italy, and the spring and first love all together should suffice to make the gloomiest person happy.” -Bertrand Russell

 

Cheers,

Katie.

Switzerland & its wildflowers

“Climb the mountains & get their good tidings.” -John Muir

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Well we are back in the full swing of summer/please-don’t-tell-me-it’s-time-to-think-about-school-already(!). It has been an INSANE 6 weeks home so I’d vote that it’s about time I share more about the beginning of our summer, being abroad for 20 days with some of the best people in this world.

Like I shared in my last post, this summer trip couldn’t have come at a better time. With the craziness of buying & fixing up a new home & selling our first one, going to Europe would definitely seem to not be an option. Unless you already planned it, bought plane tickets & booked places to stay, which thankfully, we had already done. No backing out! To say the least, our trip was phenomenal. It was great for so many reasons, but ultimately it was full of peace & excitement, rest & adventure, and getting to travel with my parents & our girls was a gift; it was a trip I will carry in my heart for a long time.

Getting to reflect back on those weeks throughout the rest of this summer has been a foundational place of thanksgiving for me. When I start to feel the stress of our chaos I can simply choose to mentally go back to the beautiful valleys, mountain peaks, cobblestoned streets & tasty gelato. Thank you Jesus. I am so so grateful.

I am choosing to break this into a series of posts based off of each place we visited, so as to give myself more time walking down memory lane & more space to share photos from our time in each location. This post is about the beauty of SWITZERLAND. One of the places on this earth that sings the praises of our Creator in an awe-inspiring tune. It is, simply, stunning. So grab some tea, some swiss chocolate if you have some & enjoy walking down through the valleys & high up in the hills of Switzerland with me.

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“Study how water flows in a valley stream, smoothly & freely between the rocks. Also learn from holy books & wise people. Everything – even mountains, rivers, plants & trees – should be your teacher.” -Morihei Ueshiba

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So we begin.

We flew out on a non-stop red-eye (which is a WONDERFUL thing if you are traveling with wee ones) from LAX to London. From there we met up with my Madre who flew in on a different flight & made our way on a much smaller plane to Zurich, Switzerland. We eventually found our rooms for the night & crashed out.

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The next day we took the train through the beautiful Swiss countryside & arrived in one of my absolute FAVORITE places on earth, the Lauterbrunnen Valley. Let’s just say that Tolkien based Rivendell off of this spectacular place with its 72 waterfalls & gondolas reaching the cliffsides through the low hanging clouds. It’s a dream. I find myself going there when I randomly daydream because it feels like a completely different planet. I. Love. It. It is stunning, peaceful & remarkably, not overrun. It is, however, a destination for those who choose to base-jump, or go wingsuit flying. (Picture in your head if you will, a man wearing a bright orange squirrel suit, soaring through the air on the wind hugging the side of a mountain cliff. Like a bullet.)

Getting to sit on our deck & watch parachutes open up consistently throughout the course of the day & flutter down in the valley was really amazing. It was also encouraging seeing the success of these experiences! Maybe one day I will base jump in the swiss alps, but for now I will drink my tea & watch those other crazy cats have the time of their lives. Win. Win.

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We stayed for 3 more nights there & filled out days with a mixture of rest, walking through the rain, exploring the surrounding villages (all accessed by gondola or cogwheel train), going to the Jungfrau & Shilthorn peaks, playing at parks, eating delicious root stews & schnitzels & taking naps. The girls adjusted to the time change fairly easily & that, my friends, is a HUGE win. It makes the world go ’round in a much smoother way.

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One of my highlights was getting to eat dinner at the only hostel in a teeny tiny town called Gimmelwald. It is a fantastic little strip of swiss farms, wildflowers, cows & views that seem to be a Hollywood backdrop. We have made it a point both times Noah & I have been to this area of Switzerland to go & buy some local cheese. We walk into the back of someone’s home where they have a self-serve fridge section & you leave your money in a basket. It’s wonderful! The cheese is tangy, hard & FULL of real flavor. Not for the faint of heart with its stray pieces of hair. πŸ˜‰ Ok, back to our dinner. We ate outside of the hostel, watching the sun set behind the mountains as we drank Swiss made hard apple cider in all of its deliciousness. It was wonderful. I had root soup & crusty bread & we watched the last light hit the waterfalls before it fell into another dark night. It was one of those moments in time where you take some deep, slow, methodical breaths & just take. it. all. in. I love Switzerland. From there we walked down to take a gondola back to the valley floor & I got to snap a few pictures of my little peanut Cora surrounded by thousands of wildflowers. That was my one goal for capturing the Swiss landscape with my little one & luckily she didn’t freak out. 2 summers ago when I attempted the same thing with Eliana, she freaked. Wasn’t into the way they tickled her face I guess. But Cora humored me & it was perfect.

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After our stay in the Swiss alps, we moved on. We took the train to the border station Domodossola, in northern Italy & that is where our our Swiss journey came to an end. So that is where I will leave it until next time. I hope you had enough time to finish your amazing cup of cocoa, & if not, please continue in peace! Maybe start planning your own trip to the Bernese Oberland in Switzerland, ya? You totally should. Go for it.

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“Come fairies, take me out of this dull world, for I would ride with you upon the wind & dance upon the mountains like a flame!” -William Butler Yeats

 

Cheers,

Katie.

 

Change

image1 (2)“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, & join the dance.” -Alan Watts

Change is HARD! The last few months have brought our family lots of it. We are in a season we were not anticipating, expecting, planning for. But isn’t that just how life is? At least for our family, we have learned that we TRULY cannot predict the future & that trying our best to “go with the flow” really makes things easier as the curve balls get thrown. And not all curve balls are bad, but they are still curvy, you know? So with that, it has been a few months of re-adjusting & re-adjusting & re-adjusting again. I’m getting pretty good at it. πŸ˜‰ Our girls are handling it really well, which has helped. There have been moments of confusion & frustration, but ultimately it feels like it has been as smooth as we can make it. I am glad that our life has been FULL of the unexpected up until this point, so this is nothing new, really.

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We weren’t expecting to buy a fixer upper, to sell our home, to move in with my parents for the next unknown amount of time. We weren’t expecting all of this to pan out in the 2 months leading up to a trip to Europe for 3 weeks that we had already planned. We weren’t expecting to have to pack up our home that we have made into our haven over the last 5 years & have to start from scratch. We weren’t expecting to be able to buy a home in a neighborhood we love & be a mere 2 streets away from family. We weren’t expecting to do any of this! BUT WE ARE. And it is OK.

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“If there is no struggle, there is no progress.” -Frederick Douglass

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It has been a crazy, stressful, busy, never-ending last few months FULL of the unexpected. But that is ok, we have made it this far & we have a VERY FAITHFUL GOD. He is taking care of this & He KNEW that this is how our lives would be at this very point in history, before He even knit us together in our mother’s wombs. There is a lot of peace that comes from that detail. I love that we serve a God who knows what our lives will be like & that there is always so much GOODNESS in each unexpected season. I love that we planned our trip to Europe with NO idea that this was what everything would be like! It was really amazing timing & was a perfect break from the chaos that we have been experiencing. (I’ll share lots more about that trip soon!) I am grateful. I am grateful that everything is working out, that even with curve ball after curve ball, we are succeeding at choosing JOY & that we know everything is going to be even better in the end. It’s rad!

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Life really is beautiful.

It’s a really exciting season, that’s for sure. Not what I was predicting or necessarily wanting, but still, it has been full of goodness. It will continue to surprise us, day by day, but in the end, when we move into our new home that we get to make into our new haven with details that we love, watching our girls run around outside in the backyard with our dog Gypsy, picking apples from our little orchard, sipping tea in front of a fire, taking evening walks around the neighborhood….It will all be so beautiful. For now, I will choose to be GRATEFUL for the season we are in, for the mornings I get to wake up & have coffee & eggs with my mom, for the pool in my parents backyard, for the evenings we get to all squeeze around the kitchen table for dinner, for my girls getting to live life under the same roof as Momo & Papa. For a trip to Europe & the ability to walk from where we are living to the remodel of our new home during the summer days & nights, for enough space for our family of 4 to share with my incredible parents. I am grateful.

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“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” -Wayne Dyer

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I hope that if you are in a season of change, that you would be able to feel the winds of newness that that change brings you. That your life would be full of flavor & excitement & NEW hopes & dreams. That even if it feels hard, that that would bring you a deeper grounding & resilience in whatever you have to face today, tomorrow or 20 years from now. I hope you can find support from the community that surrounds you & that your heart would find PEACE even in the chaos. That your life would be lived out with GRACE & that you would bring love to the world around you even in the middle of change. I wish you well as you continue on your way through life today! Take some deep breaths & feel the breeze blow. Allow it to buoy you up & encourage you wherever you are at in this journey called life!

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“If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living.” -Gail Sheehy

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Cheers,

Katie.

Why are we born?

“The two most important days in your life are the day you’re born & the day you find out why.”

-Mark Twain

Deciding to embrace that truth takes guts because it calls you to a higher way of living. It calls you to live the life you were born to live. Not just a day to day survival, but a movement ONWARD into your DESTINY. Choosing to acknowledge WHO you are, WHY you are here on earth, right here, right now & then moving ahead with your journey is scary, heart pounding big, full of emotion & it is RIGHT. Sure, there are twists & turns in the road of life, & sometimes we may pick the “not so good” option, but ultimately, if we are moving forward, it means we aren’t stepping backward or shying away from the greatness ahead of us. We were born for a reason & realizing that reason is necessary to live a fulfilled life. Who doesn’t want a life full of joy, success, deepening, growing, thriving & vibrancy?! I know I do! That is why when I wake up in the morning, I make it my mission to live my absolute BEST for that day. Oh don’t get me wrong, I fail miserably sometimes at it, but ultimately making the decision to TRY is always worth it. On days I fail, I go to bed at night with lessons learned, tips that will help my roots deepen & give me a better chance of “BEST” tomorrow. On days that I succeed, it feels great knowing that I truly lived my life to the fullest for those past hours. It all counts guys, it all counts.

“Any area that you don’t have hope is an area that is under the influence of a lie.”

-Bill Johnson

Without hope, choosing to live the best life we have to live will not be easy. Hope is an anchor for the soul! No hope equals no true happiness for tomorrow. There have been times in my life where I have CHOSEN not to live with hope. To bury my joy, turn off the light of hope flickering in my soul, all because of bitterness & festering from hardship in life. When I did that, I felt like I literally just floated on the winds of life, with no anchor to anything good. It was a numb, cold, sad existence & I couldn’t survive living my life like that for long. It took me realizing how selfish I was, how badly I really did want to live with hope, that I gave in. I forgave others, I forgave myself & I chose to move ON. ONWARD into my destiny again. It felt good. It felt like I came alive again. It was a process for sure, but slowly the world filled with color, like a watercolor washed with rain, I embraced my emotions, both good & bad, because it was SO good to FEEL again & I took a step forward. It was scary to live again! But it was LIVING.

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Looking back on that season of my life, it taught me so much. It taught me that I was living under the influence of a lie, a lie that I was perpetuating. I was CHOOSING a lie! It sounds so ridiculous, because it was. I was robbing myself. Once I chose to destroy that lie, I had to fill it with life. So I intentionally started speaking life over myself, EVERY SINGLE DAY. It was refreshing. It was new. It was quenching my thirsty soul. Choosing to HOPE again, choosing to embrace my destiny, the REASON I was born, was one of the best days of my life. I haven’t looked back since. I don’t want to ever live under a lie, hopeless, not embracing the reason I was created, ever again. It was SO NOT WORTH IT.

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So I encourage you, take a step back. Look at the life you are leading. Is it full of PURPOSE? Is it fulfilling you? Do you KNOW why you were born? I don’t care how old you are. Sometimes it takes decades to figure it out. Why are you here? Right here, right now? Do you have hope? Are you LIVING or are you just surviving? Take some time to reflect on your life up until this point. Find the color. Why is it there? Are you living in color right now? I hope so. But if not, you can change that RIGHT NOW! Today. Look into your heart & figure it out. It will be so worth the giant leap you need to take if you aren’t living & walking in your purpose towards your destiny.

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I’ll cheer you on! I have some of the best cheerleaders in my life. My mom, specifically. I have lived for 28 years under her RELENTLESS encouragement. Sometimes it drives me crazy, but without it I know I wouldn’t be walking in my purpose for life, full of HOPE. (Thanks Mudder. πŸ™‚ ) Find people full of hope & ask them to become your cheerleaders. We need people to buoy us up & remind us from time to time why we choose hope & what our destiny is. I definitely do. I married the best man for that. Noah & I daily try to remind each other what a gift our life is & evaluate if we are doing our best at living full of joy & hope. If we aren’t doing so hot, we help each other out! It’s a partnership. We definitely fail, we aren’t perfect, but we get a new shot at it every single day. How rad is that?!

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So go, friends. Look at your life. Evaluate. Shift. Change. Breathe. Dream. Re-evaluate. It’s an ongoing process. I’ll leave you with this verse from Psalms, out of the Message version:

“God, the one & only – I’ll wait as long as he says. Everything I hope for comes from Him, so why not? He’s solid rock under my feet, breathing room for my soul, An impregnable castle: I’m set for life.”

-Psalms 62:5-6

We’re set for life guys! And that, feels good.

Cheers,

Katie.